What Divorce Clients Really Want (and What We Do Differently)

Christina Previte,
3 min
July 10, 2025
If you’re considering divorce, chances are you’ve heard a horror story or two about sky-high legal fees, unreturned calls, and lawyers who seem more interested in fighting than resolving. And if you've been through it yourself, you might even have one of those stories.
The truth is, divorce is already one of the most emotionally and financially stressful experiences a person can go through. When your lawyer adds to that stress instead of helping you navigate it, it feels like betrayal.
At WOLF, we’ve spent a lot of time listening to what clients say they wish their divorce lawyer had done differently and we’ve built our entire approach around avoiding those exact pain points.
The Two Biggest Complaints Divorce Clients Have
We’ve read the Reddit threads, we’ve taken the phone calls, and we’ve even had clients come to us after bad experiences elsewhere. While every situation is different, two major themes come up again and again:
1. “I never knew what was going on.”
This is hands-down the most common complaint. Clients often feel left in the dark about where they are in the process, what’s coming next, or even why they’re being billed for certain things.
2. “I didn’t feel like they cared.”
Sometimes it's the tone of an email. Sometimes it's silence after a big court date. The underlying issue? A lack of empathy. People want to feel seen, supported, and understood, not just processed like a case file.
What We Do Differently at WOLF
We get it. And we’ve built systems and communication strategies that directly tackle those two core issues, because we believe your divorce lawyer shouldn’t add to your anxiety. We should relieve it.
✅ You Get a Clear Divorce Roadmap
No more guessing what’s next. When you work with us, we provide a customized “Divorce Roadmap” at the beginning of your case. It outlines all the major phases of the divorce process, like filing, financial disclosures, negotiations, court dates, and settlement, written in plain English, no fancy legal jargon.
We update this roadmap as your case progresses, so you always know where you stand. Think of it like a GPS for your divorce: you may still hit traffic, but you’ll never be lost.
✅ We Stay in Touch; Even When There’s No Big News
Most lawyers only check in when they need something or have a court date. We think you deserve better. At WOLF, we schedule regular check-ins (usually every 2–3 weeks) just to let you know where things stand, even if there’s no major update. It’s a simple touchpoint that makes a big difference.
And if something does come up, we’ll explain it in terms you understand, not legal jargon. You should never feel confused about what’s happening in your own case.
✅ We Treat You Like a Person, Not a Problem
We know divorce isn’t just a legal event for you. It’s an emotional turning point. We never forget that you’re a real person going through something incredibly difficult. That’s why we prioritize empathy, respect, and transparency in every interaction. We’re here to help you move forward and not stir up drama or run up your bill.
Ready for a Different Kind of Divorce Experience?
If you’ve been putting off divorce because you’re afraid of being dragged through a messy, expensive process or if you’ve already started and aren’t getting the support you deserve, we’re here to help.
We believe in empowering our clients with information, support, and clarity every step of the way. And we’re committed to delivering a better experience, one where you feel heard, informed, and in control.
Ready to take the first step? Book a consultation here.